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Re: Insights and advise needed and appreciated |
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manlydude |
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Mar 11, 06 - 10:16 AM |
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jayo1@tampabay.rr.com |
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I dont know if this helps but I have been with my partner of 8 years. I too just turned 40 and I am gay as well. Well my favorite cousin came down from another state because of he is divorcing his wife of 20 years and wanted to start over himself.
I always thought he was straight, he did me too, but 2 months before coming down, he just discovered that I was gay and in a gay relationship. He apparently is bisexual with lots of gay curiousity. Well to make a long story short, last summer when he came to stay in a spare bedroom in my house, he broke the ice, told us about his gay feelings and asked if we could give him a gay experience. Well we did and have all been sleeping together ever since.
I donno, I say go for it but no matter how trusting and OK with everything I do suggest watching out for the pitfalls. Any of you CAN become jealous of the others faster then you would expect. Be careful to give equal time. Its quite easy for everyone to hop into bed together and one not be in the mood that night and let the others go at it and think nothing of it, but you still give the 3rd party a chance to participate if they desire. Trouble forms when any 2 out of the 3 want to exclude the 3rd and go plan a night at a hotel or such, you are asking for emotional stress for the one left behind if you do this, I would avoid that and set rules up front that block this. It seems OK if 2 go at it if the 3rd is at work but planning to exclude one can hurt the one left at home bored. |
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