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Re: My experience with menage a trois |
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luna morehouse |
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May 23, 06 - 8:07 PM |
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lunamorehouse@yahoo.com |
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Hello. I am an avid reader of your fine book, Three in Love, and would be hard pressed to find a work of intimate prose more deeply referenced in historical fact while relayed with elegant style. That being said, I am the 37 year-old wife of a 37 year-old man and we have a loving, open-minded marriage. I met my future husband at 18 and we fell in love very quickly. When I was 29, my world was sent topsy-turvy when I found myself falling in love with my female colleague and friend who was also 29. We ended up making love on my living room floor one night, and continued our illicit affair for a mere two weeks before my husband found out and put the kibosh on it. By the next year, much talking and discussion, and researching the term 'menage a trois' (which at that time mostly returned hits on porn sites), we found that my husband and S had a thing as well. We had a difficult yet blissfully ignorant menage a trois for about two months. Then she became pregnant (with her husband's baby), got tired of cheating, could not accomodate nor accept her bisexual feelings, and thus decided to end it. My husband and I were at our nadir at that point. We had to go to therapy. We worked through it all and came out happier and more open to alternative relationships, although we haven't had any serious encounters since our menage a trois. I dreadfully missed S over the years. I would email her a couple times a year. I had spiritual ceremonies whereby I would try and excise her from my heart. I burned our two-inch thick notebook of achived emails from our menage time. I pined for her every spring to no avail. When we would run into her in town, I would be unable to breathe, or speak, while my heart beat so quickly I thought it would burst out of my chest. I fantasized about her husband dying so she could be free. Finally, just a few weeks ago, she actually returned my email to say she wanted to get together. I didn't really believe her. Then she called me! She hinted things weren't going well and couldn't wait to tell me she was finally getting a divorce. She came out to our place and we greeted her with open arms, and essentially picked up where we had left off, except without the difficulties of 8 years ago. We are forging ahead with our alternative relationship with no expectations of the future. I cannot relate the absolute joy I feel at having her in my life again, and hearing her validate and return my feelings of love after all these years. And I have absolutely no feelings of jealousy this time around. While it is very challenging just to get together what with the 6 children that exist between us, her busy career, and the chaos of divorce, we live each moment to the fullest and have spent two nights together as a menage already, and several more days. Time will tell how we all evolve in this relationship, and I have fears, but I find that if I just live in the moment, all is wonderful and fine. Thanks for listening and reading this declaration of love, and thanks for your website! warmly, luna in montana |
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