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Straight Theresome? |
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jack |
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Sep 6, 07 - 9:42 PM |
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jjrpph@rit.edu |
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I am a straight guy with a woman who is everything I ever wanted. Unfortunately we live 4 states apart and will have to for another 2 years.
We have adopted an open relationship based on the condition that our bond comes first. It has worked fine. She made love to an old BF recently and it caused no problem. I know and like him and do not feel threatened. I was proud of her.
We have talked about threesomes. (She had one years ago with 2 men, I never have.) In theory I am fine with it, in the context of genuine friendliness with someone we both know. (not swinger sex)
Some questions.
Can straight threesomes work? I am not squeamish about the idea of another man, but I have never expressed my affection for a man sexually. It's just not me. Is that OK? Has anyone had a successful 3 way relationship (either one guy or one woman) where there is no Bi componant?
I seem to have no problems about her and another man. I'm a man and can offer her anything any other guy can. But I'm intimidated by the thought of her being turned on by a woman. The reason being, I'm not in that club; I'm not a woman. If she decides she likes vulva's, I can't compete.
So I have mixed feelings. Would I inhibit her asking her not to have cunnilingus with a woman? Is that fair?
I guess my over all concern is this: Some people tell me it's all or nothing. Everyone makes love to everyone, or just don't go there.
Is it really all or nothing? |
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