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curious, but worried that it will hurt my husband |
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kn |
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Jul 11, 08 - 5:41 PM |
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kali_m_nichols@yahoo.com |
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I am 22 years old, and have been married for a little over 2 years. He was my high school sweetheart, and the man I lost my virginity to. I am bisexual, and he's known that since we met over 5 years ago, and he's never had a problem with it. In some ways it turns him on. We have experimented with a friend of mine a little bit, usually just him watching us kiss. But a few months ago we were all drinking, and he pleasured both of us orally and with his hands while there was very little interaction between her and I. After that he said he regretted it, and doesn't like it when I bring it up. He was not a virgin when we met, but I was, and I am becoming increasingly interested in exploring my sexuality with other men and women. He says he's comfortable with me doing that, but that he's not interested in going outside our marriage. I can't decide if me doing that would really be ok with him or not, and I fear that he's just trying to punish himself for what happened a few months ago. The last thing I want is to hurt him or cause any problems in our relationship. Does anyone have any advice for me??? I could really use some opinions from people who have already taken that step. |
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