I recently heard the following sentence: "I have spent some months bonding with he whom I thought to be my son." Should it be ‘he’ or ‘him’? I thought the objective case was used after a preposition (in this case ‘with’). Thank you.
Hi Philip You have it right. Where a pronoun is subject of a clausal complement, it normally appears in the accusative case, i.e. "him", not "he". However, some examples (probably mainly literary ones) like yours with a third-person pronoun seem acceptable, whereas others don't: *"We set off again, with he following closely behind". *"With they out of the way, I hate to think what might happen". In those two examples, nominative he/they sounds absurdly formal to the point of being unacceptable to most speakers. I would say stick with the accusative and you can't go wrong. PaulM