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Demondog posted 04-07-2005 05:05 PM

I'll keep it short and sweet. "It is what ... It is!" You should ride out and check on your sister and your SISTAS. When people need medical attention, things have obviously gone wayyyyyy tooo far! Not throwing out any indictiments but someone needs to get checked. 2COLD was absolutely right, as a member you need to intercede no matter how new you are!

Discretion posted 04-08-2005 11:29 AM

When it comes to my family, organizational loyalty goes out the window.

I'll be ****ed if I keep silent and possibly end up losing my sister just so a chapter of my sorority can continue to haze and flourish.

I know some will say that you are overreacting, I thought that at first when I read your post before the hospitalization account, but death or lifelong injury happens in a second and no one can predict it.

Zeta1920 04-08-2005 10:06 PM

OK Soror,
The policy of Zeta Phi Beta sorority Inc, Is NO HAZING. Soror, you sould not worrie about what that chapter is going to do to you but what might happen to your sister if you do not report this. TELL and tell it now!!!. Pick up the phone and call the region and report it. There is not need for you blood sister to go prove her loyatly by being hazed. I am totally aginst that and feel that any sorors hazing should be removed from our great organization!!!

Nicole posted 04-09-2005 09:04 PM

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As I say, we do not need to air our own dirty laundry. yes think about your sister, but think about your sorority as well. because you are a zeta, you can contact the sorors at her school and deal with them directly soror to soror. and think about this: your sister CHOSE to do this, and honestly, in the end she will be fine, she will be a stronger person for it, and she will be so proud of what she earned and built for herself. i'm not saying to not intervene with your sister, but i think you should keep it within the organization and try to deal directly with them first.

AfricanVenus posted 04-09-2005 10:39 PM

Nicole, that is the sickest and coldest response I've ever heard. When I see a mentality like yours, it points to how dangerous being in a BGLO can be.

"and think about this: your sister CHOSE to do this, and honestly, in the end she will be fine, she will be a stronger person for it, and she will be so proud of what she earned and built for herself."

onetruedelta posted 04-09-2005 11:28 PM

Nicole,

If she is already being sent to the hospital, how can you be so sure that in the end she will be fine? I know, and I am sure that others on this board know, of people or have heard of people who got hurt while pledging and are not fine. Also, as for being so proud of being a Zeta, I know MANY stories of people who were hazed on line, crossed the sands, but now REFUSE to even say the name of their org., let alone be active, because of the experiences that they faced while pledging. So, the belief that the more a person pledges or gets hazed, the more they value their org. is completely false. I hope that is not the case in this situation, but it is a reality...
One True Delta


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